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Why generic 'confidence' advice is useless (And what to do instead)
"Just be more confident!"
Oh, there it is again...
That well-meaning but completely unhelpful advice:
"Just be more confident!"
As if confidence is something you’re deciding not to have.
Here's what those "just be confident" people don't understand...
It's not about confidence at all.
There's something entirely different happening in those moments when your voice gets stuck...
Something that explains why you can speak ‘PERFECTLY’ when you're alone...
But freeze the moment all eyes turn to you.
That's exactly why I created The 6 Power Shifts. ✨
Because I was tired of watching brilliant women...
Try to force themselves into someone else's version of "confident"...
When what they really needed was permission to be powerful in their own way.
Want to know what's really happening when your voice freezes?
→ It's not about confidence
→ It's not about skill
→ It's not about experience or expertise
It's about something much deeper...
And once you understand it?
Everything changes. 💫
That's why the first Power Shift focuses on uncovering what's REALLY happening in those moments...
So you can transform that paralysing self-doubt into unshakeable presence...
Without having to become someone you're not.
Ready to go beyond "just be confident"?
Because you don't need more confidence tricks.
You need a transformation that honors who you already are. 🤩
Love, Laughter & Light,
'Ronke
P.S. Spaces for the first masterclass happening next week have just opened up… click here to ensure you get a space in the room 😁😁😁