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What if being 'professional' is keeping you small?
The harsh truth they don't want you to know...
Hey Verbalizer,
Have you ever noticed how the women who seem to command the most respect aren't necessarily the loudest... but the clearest?
They’re the ones who speak from a place of unshakeable knowing.
Not because they're fearless…
But because they're grounded in something deeper than fear:
Their values. ✨
I was thinking about this yesterday...
About all the times I used to measure my words against what others might think.
About how exhausting it was to constantly shape-shift.
About how much energy it took to be "professional" instead of my authentic self.
Until I realised something that completely transformed how I showed up:
Being liked isn't more important than being heard. (Even though that truth might sting a little...)
When you know what you stand for...
When you're clear on your non-negotiables...
When your values become your voice...
That's when a dramatic shift occurs in your professional life:
You stop asking for permission to speak.
You stop waiting for the "perfect" moment.
You stop shrinking to make others comfortable.
Because suddenly, staying silent begins to feel more costly than speaking up, which is what you want, right?
Well, this Thursday at 12:30pm UK time, I'm hosting a special masterclass on The Power of Your Values where we’re going to explore this further.
This is not another "core values exercise." But a deep dive into:
#1 How to transform your values from silent principles into magnetic presence
#2 Why "fake it till you make it" keeps you stuck (and what to do instead)
#3 The exact process for speaking with natural authority - without having to perform or pretend (Plus practical takeaways you can implement immediately)
This isn't about becoming someone new. It's about finally trusting who you've always been.
So if you've been feeling that tension...
That gap between your inner wisdom and your outer voice...
That knowing that you're capable of more...
Then maybe it's time.
Time to let your values do the heavy lifting.
Time to stop editing yourself small.
Time to speak from a place of deep, unshakeable truth.
Ready to transform your values from silent principles into magnetic presence?
Love, Laughter & Light,
‘Ronke
P.S. Your brilliance deserves a voice as powerful as your potential. The invitation to take up space awaits you. Will you accept?