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The 4 Stages From Silent Spectator to Influential Leader
Your silence isn't weakness - it's stage 1 of your voice rising
Hey Verbalizer,
In today’s day and age, we're often told to "just speak up" - as if finding your voice was a single moment instead of a journey.
But the truth is, your voice isn't something you suddenly discover.
It's something you Find.
Own.
Use.
And yes... Raise.

Yet so many brilliant women I speak to have got stuck trying to perfect one part of this cycle:
Either constantly searching (but never claiming)
Or owning it privately (but never using it publicly)
Or speaking up once (but never building that muscle)
What if the real power isn't in mastering one step...
But in allowing yourself to move through all of them?
To Find your truth without rushing
To Own it without apology
To Use it with intention
To Raise it with purpose
And then... to begin again.
Because each cycle makes you stronger.
Each turn makes you clearer.
This is exactly what we explore inside my signature coaching container - not just how to speak, but how to truly embody each phase of your voice journey.
If you've been feeling called to find, own, use and raise your voice to impact your workplace and beyond...
Reply to this email with the word "CYCLE" if you’re interested in exploring what this could look like for you.
Love, Laughter & Light,
'Ronke
P.S. Your voice isn't lost. It's just waiting for you to move through these sacred stages. When you're ready to begin, I'm here. ✨