STOP Speaking So Much at Work!

The REAL reason it seems like no one ever listens to you...

Hey Verbalizer,

Have you ever shared a great idea at work,

Only for it to be ignored, brushed aside, or even worse…

INTERRUPTED before you could even finish your sentence?

It’s so frustrating, right?

It can make you feel like screaming (I’ve been there),

Because it’s not like what you’re saying doesn’t make any sense…

In fact, a lot of the time other people make the same points that you do,

So why is it that when they say it everyone cheers and it’s declared a “great idea,”

But when you say the exact same thing…

NO ONE ever seems to listen?!

It’s exhausting, and it’s chipping away at your confidence over time.

But what’s the solution?

Well, what if I told you,

That if you want people to listen to you MORE,

You actually need to speak LESS.

That sounds ridiculous, right?

But let me explain why this simple change will have a MASSIVE impact on how you’re treated in both your professional and personal life.

I’m sure you’re probably thinking:

“But ‘Ronke, you always preach about speaking up, so why should I speak less?”

Well, here’s the thing…

If you just focus on “speaking up”,

Your points will lack clarity and people will keep ignoring you.

That’s why, not only do I preach about speaking up,

I preach about speaking up WITH INTENTION.

Without the intention, your points will lack clarity and they will keep getting ignored.

And the more you get ignored, the less courage you have to speak up in the first place,

So eventually you just decide to remain silent to avoid the frustration.

Sound familiar?

Well, this is the destructive cycle many professional women find themselves in.

They try to speak to fill the silence,

Just to end up remaining silent themselves…

And if you don’t learn how to speak with intention,

You will be stuck in this cycle forever.

That’s why my coaching program isn’t just about speaking up,

Or vague tips to “boost your confidence” that don’t even work,

It’s all about SWIFI:

Speaking With Intention For Impact.

The program is specifically designed to help professional women like you to develop:

  • The courage to speak up.

  • The clarity to speak up with intention.

  • And the conviction to speak up with intention and make an impact.

And these skills will have a MASSIVE impact on how you’re treated by others.

You’ll begin to command attention and respect not just at work,

But in your personal life too.

Whether you’re leading a team meeting or having a conversation at home,

This skill will completely transform how you show up.

And will not only make you a better leader and colleague,

But even a better partner, mum, and friend to the people that you love the most.

So if that sounds like something that you would be interested in,

Click the link below to book a free connection call with me where we can see if you’re a good fit for the program:

But if you only take one thing from today:

Only speak with INTENTION, not for ATTENTION,

Even if it means speaking LESS.

Have a great weekend,

Love, Laughter & Light,

‘Ronke

PS: If you want a FREE Assessment of your communication skills, and personalised feedback to help you to become a more impactful leader, click here to find out more!