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- Respectfully... please stop talking
Respectfully... please stop talking
Let me tell you why...
Verbalizer, we need to have a chat...
I'm going to say something that might sting a little but it’s something that MANY professional women need to hear:
Quit talking about how much you want to shift your mindset around showing up and speaking up...
If you don't want to actually DO anything about it.
Because here's what I keep seeing:
→ "I really need to speak up more..."
→ "Next time I'll definitely say something..."
→ "I know I should share my ideas..."
And then?
Nothing changes.
Week after week. Meeting after meeting. Opportunity after opportunity.
Listen... I get it.
The talking feels like doing something. The planning feels like progress. The wishing feels like action.
But it's not.
Your brilliance deserves better than being stuck in the land of "someday."
Your voice deserves more than being trapped in the realm of "maybe next time."
Your impact deserves bigger than living in the world of "I should."
So this is me, lovingly telling you to...
Stop. Talking. About. It. 🤫
Unless you're ready to actually DO something about it.
Because there's a difference between:
Wanting to change
Being READY to change
Which one are you?
If it's the second one...
Click here to receive your invitation to move from talking to transforming.
Love, Laughter & Light (and a dash of tough love),
'Ronke
P.S. And if you're not ready? That's okay too. Just stop torturing yourself with the "someday" talk. When you're truly ready, you'll know. And I'll be here. ✨